Hey people 😃 today is a good day for me because I’ve come to realise just how much my blog is appreciated by people all over the world and that’s the greatest reward for me. It’s not about fame but the number of lives you can change, improve and support by those simple lines you share through your blog.  I came to realise this achievement by going through all the spam messages Ive received and the encouragements it contained from complete strangers. 

I strongly believe in this so at first I started by trying to email my responses to some and realised loads were fake IDs. This was very discouraging because I also strongly believe in choices.  I may choose to keep my identity to myself but doesn’t mean there is no human being behind this keyboard. Some people love talking about their lives, family and stuff while others prefer to connect with others through their work, deeds,website or blog. That’s the way things are and it’s everybodies’ choice to make. So please understand me when I ask you today to stay real.

Well, with that said, I decided that the best way to answer to those spam messages by or from real or fake individuals is to dedicate a few posts to those admirers out there. In order to answer their questions and appreciates.

NB: message pasted as received- so this will be long but luckily I thought of dividing the messages per post for 4posts- 875 spams is a huge number 🙈 😂 Hopefully everyone will recognise his/her own message. Thanks in advance😊

Women and their contradictions..

I was wondering if you ever considered changing the page layout of your blog? It’s very well written; I love what you’ve got to say. But maybe you could write a little more in the way of content so people could connect with it better.

Hello😊 Well, I’ve never considered changing my layout,for the simple reason that I worked hard for it and had it thoroughly thought out so I’ll probably stick with it for awhile. Also, I try my best to write in a simple manner so everyone can relate and understand..😊

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I’ll definitely put more pictures to illustrate my posts better 😁 Thanks for following 😊

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Wow I guess I’m a professional designer then ’cause I did this all by myself 😎😂  But on a more serious note, WordPress offers alot of great themes and designs to choose from so I just made a great choice I guess😊 Thanks for stopping by.

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Indeed it is 😁 Thank you so much👍

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OMG I’m touched 😄 I started this blog on the 29th of February 2016. I guess you can now know how long it has been 😉 Thanks for following 😁

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Hello, well WordPress offers me all the basic and advanced options I need so a big thanks to WordPress. But from what I’ve read, photo size and video posting add to the weight of your page thus lowering the quality and loading speed of your website. So try reducing the size of the latters. I don’t think I own an affiliated link if I’ve understood your question well. Thanks for stopping by 😊

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